Shelter from the Storm goes to Africa!
I saw the depth of Christ’s redemption in my life when I went to Africa this year and talked about biblical recovery and forgiveness to women like me, who’d been sexually abused. Previously, I’d been through “Shelter from the Storm,” a sexual abuse recovery ministry at Watermark. Later, I helped put together a team that brought sexual abuse healing curriculum for the first time to women in Democratic Republic of Congo, where rape is rampant.
As I taught on the topic of shame on the trip, I looked back at my journal at the shameful things I used to believe about myself as a result of the abuse. Those words showed how much God had redeemed me. Like Isaiah 54:4, I had ‘forgotten the shame of my youth.’ I didn’t do that on my own power. Healing happened, because I relied on God. My hope for the women in D.R. Congo was that they would be comforted by the same comfort we found in Christ. - Laney Tate
LAUREN MADELEY: “We didn’t know how the women would respond to teaching on sexual abuse and rape. We knew the local ministry leaders must have been interested in being trained on the subject, because out of 100 people invited, 99 showed up.
“We started the conference by sharing our own stories. As I talked to the women about my own past abuse, I felt a connection. Our circumstances were different, but the hurt was the same. Although we did not speak the same language, they cried like I cried, and mourned like I mourned.
“Sexual abuse is never discussed in Africa. Women are the backbone of African communities and are raped as a means of destroying families and villages. The rapes are absolutely horrific – often taking place in front of their family members. After the attacks, they are cast out of their community with nowhere to go.”
LANEY: “I did not expect the women to open up. But sharing our stories broke down the walls. One by one, the women stood up and told their stories of abuse and rape. Some had carried that burden for 10 – 15 years. There was wailing and a lot of tears. But God’s Word shed truth and light in Africa in the same way it had for many of us here. It was wonderful to see that God’s Word changes lives no matter where you are or what circumstance you are facing.
“We knew no one could complete the recovery process in a three-day conference. Our goal was to give local church leaders, counselors and ministry directors the tools to teach the curriculum to others. But I did pray that healing would take place quickly, and God answered that prayer. Many women at the conference said they were ready to forgive. One rape victim had been plotting to have her perpetrator killed with a machete. She learned that revenge is for the Lord (Romans 12:19), and walking home from the conference, she decided she was ready to pursue forgiveness rather than revenge. It was amazing to see the healing that God provided. They went from not being able to mention they’d been raped to praising God and embracing healing and forgiveness. And they were ready to share that message with others.”
LAUREN: “I was surprised by the empathy the women had for us. I never thought the women in Africa would be crying for and ministering to me. That’s the perfect picture of God’s heart breaking for the abused. God doesn’t want abuse to happen, and He is in control. Yet we live in a broken, sinful world, and that’s a hard concept to understand at times. Today, it’s my job to share the truth about Christ so that others don’t have to live in darkness, shame and silence. That’s what my story is really about. For so long, I was in bondage and never thought I could share my story. Today, God is using my story to help women who don’t even speak my language. The abuse man meant for harm, God is using for good. And I have found freedom.”







